“To burn with desire and keep quiet about it is the greatest punishment we can bring on ourselves.” |
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Sex, Pleasure & Relationships
Hi there!
If you're looking for a therapist who will have a deep understanding rather than simply being accepting, you've come to the right place.
I've been working in sexual health and pleasure as well as various aspects of the LGBTQIA2, BDSM and Polyamorous communities personally and professionally for over a decade.
Pleasure
Pleasure can sometimes feel intimidating. Often we don't know how to access it or where to start. When it's hard to slow down, or we spend a lot of time disconnected from our bodies, or lost in our thoughts, experiencing pleasure can feel impossible.
Together I can help you explore what pleasure means to you and how to slow down racing thoughts and get in touch with your needs both partnered and solo. In session we can move towards a deeper connection to your body and your senses and work towards finding pleasure in all areas of your life.
The homework I am able to provide you with does not have to be sexual in nature and can be completed at your own pace. Through this you can learn to use sensate focus, tantric and meditative techniques to tune into what makes you feel good. We can even learn about toys if you wish.
From eating your favourite foods, to beautiful relaxing smells and sensations to mind blowing orgasms. These tasks will be catered to your goals and desires.
I am also pleased to offer extensive knowledge about difficulty with orgasm, the effects of menopause in relation to pleasure, strategies for genital pain and techniques to alleviate and work with erectile dysfunction. I have an intricate and in depth understanding of over 4000 different sex toys and books including how to find the right ones for you and how to incorporate them into play with others.
Relationships
Whether you're struggling to find a relationship, or wondering why you always seem to find yourself in the same types of relationships I would be happy to work with you to understand how we can move towards what you deserve and desire. If you're looking to improve communication with your current partner or exploring what it might look like to open up your relationship, I offer an in depth knowledge of polyamorous and non monogamous relationship structures including exploration of non monogamy and navigating already established polyamorous groups.
Kink, Fetish and BDSM
Are you wondering about how you can talk to your partner about incorporating kink play into your relationship? Do you want to learn basic safety skills and how to use certain toys? Maybe your looking for a mediator to help you negotiate an already existing power dynamic (D/s).
The kink community is very near and dear to my heart, and I approach all exploration of this vast landscape with no judgement. Together we can explore what excites you, or build a foundational understanding of this world. We can learn how to negotiate desire with partners or enter into the community safely.
We can also explore the more difficult aspects of kink. Many of us struggle with shame and even rejection of our fetishes. While many individuals report having kinky desires from childhood we are also steeped in a culture that often views our desires as unnatural. Together we can unpack shame, unwanted desires and ways to navigate fetish in both solo and partnered pleasure.
Disability and Older Adults
As a person with a physical disability I am not simply an ally in this experience. Together we can explore what pleasure looks like for you and how you can achieve an incredibly fulfilling sex life both partnered and single.
Often the experiences of folks with disabilities and the aging population can be very similar. Together we can explore adaptive positions and toys for comfort and pleasure. How to have conversations with partners about your specific needs. Issues relating to menopause, lack of arousal or erectile dysfunction.
We can also explore the sticky and confusing issues that come about with internalized ableism and moving through a world that was not built with our bodies in mind.
Sex Work
My practice is fully accepting of all forms of sex work as a legitimate career and essential and beneficial service for many. I have an understanding of the needs and challenges faced by both sex workers and their clients and happily welcome discussing anything to do with this line of work.
I look forward to working with you!
Hi there!
If you're looking for a therapist who will have a deep understanding rather than simply being accepting, you've come to the right place.
I've been working in sexual health and pleasure as well as various aspects of the LGBTQIA2, BDSM and Polyamorous communities personally and professionally for over a decade.
Pleasure
Pleasure can sometimes feel intimidating. Often we don't know how to access it or where to start. When it's hard to slow down, or we spend a lot of time disconnected from our bodies, or lost in our thoughts, experiencing pleasure can feel impossible.
Together I can help you explore what pleasure means to you and how to slow down racing thoughts and get in touch with your needs both partnered and solo. In session we can move towards a deeper connection to your body and your senses and work towards finding pleasure in all areas of your life.
The homework I am able to provide you with does not have to be sexual in nature and can be completed at your own pace. Through this you can learn to use sensate focus, tantric and meditative techniques to tune into what makes you feel good. We can even learn about toys if you wish.
From eating your favourite foods, to beautiful relaxing smells and sensations to mind blowing orgasms. These tasks will be catered to your goals and desires.
I am also pleased to offer extensive knowledge about difficulty with orgasm, the effects of menopause in relation to pleasure, strategies for genital pain and techniques to alleviate and work with erectile dysfunction. I have an intricate and in depth understanding of over 4000 different sex toys and books including how to find the right ones for you and how to incorporate them into play with others.
Relationships
Whether you're struggling to find a relationship, or wondering why you always seem to find yourself in the same types of relationships I would be happy to work with you to understand how we can move towards what you deserve and desire. If you're looking to improve communication with your current partner or exploring what it might look like to open up your relationship, I offer an in depth knowledge of polyamorous and non monogamous relationship structures including exploration of non monogamy and navigating already established polyamorous groups.
Kink, Fetish and BDSM
Are you wondering about how you can talk to your partner about incorporating kink play into your relationship? Do you want to learn basic safety skills and how to use certain toys? Maybe your looking for a mediator to help you negotiate an already existing power dynamic (D/s).
The kink community is very near and dear to my heart, and I approach all exploration of this vast landscape with no judgement. Together we can explore what excites you, or build a foundational understanding of this world. We can learn how to negotiate desire with partners or enter into the community safely.
We can also explore the more difficult aspects of kink. Many of us struggle with shame and even rejection of our fetishes. While many individuals report having kinky desires from childhood we are also steeped in a culture that often views our desires as unnatural. Together we can unpack shame, unwanted desires and ways to navigate fetish in both solo and partnered pleasure.
Disability and Older Adults
As a person with a physical disability I am not simply an ally in this experience. Together we can explore what pleasure looks like for you and how you can achieve an incredibly fulfilling sex life both partnered and single.
Often the experiences of folks with disabilities and the aging population can be very similar. Together we can explore adaptive positions and toys for comfort and pleasure. How to have conversations with partners about your specific needs. Issues relating to menopause, lack of arousal or erectile dysfunction.
We can also explore the sticky and confusing issues that come about with internalized ableism and moving through a world that was not built with our bodies in mind.
Sex Work
My practice is fully accepting of all forms of sex work as a legitimate career and essential and beneficial service for many. I have an understanding of the needs and challenges faced by both sex workers and their clients and happily welcome discussing anything to do with this line of work.
I look forward to working with you!
